Time Does Not Heal All Wounds.

The absurd claim that time heals ALL wounds suggests that if we just hang on and wait, the suffering will magically disappear. What kind of nonsense is that? Of course, you can fill your time with distractions until the immediate emotion related to your pain subsides. You can drink until you can’t think anymore. You […]

The Black Sheep

Last year I freed myself from a lot of things that have held me down all of my adult life. I had a lot of daunting ghosts in the corners of my mind telling me that I needed to do this, or be that in order to be acceptable for others.. and never quite feeling […]

For The Love of The Game

Often, when little girls are subject to the abuse of a narcissistic mother, they grow up and become reluctant to have children of their own. This was never the case for me. In fact, I ached for the day that I could have a do-over with a family of my own. I never had the […]